Rabu, 26 Oktober 2011

Meaning of Dreams about Bridge

A Wisdom Archive on Meaning of Dreams about Bridge Nill Meaning of Dreams about Bridge A selection of articles related to Meaning of Dreams about Bridge: Bridge: . . (1 Cor Bridge : To see a long bridge dilapidated, and mysteriously winding into darkness, profound melancholy over the loss of dearest possessions and dismal situations will fall upon you. To the young and those in love, disappointment in the heart's fondest hopes, as the loved one will fall below your ideal. To cross a bridge safely, a final surmounting of difficulties, though the means seem hardly safe to use See this and more articles and videos below. Souerce : www.experiencefestival.com

Rabu, 12 Oktober 2011

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Social Media Interaction for Internet Home Business Success

Social media interaction can make a huge difference when you are looking for internet home business success. Blogs and social media sites are today considered as two sides of the same coin. This is because of the fact that blogs are social by nature. Using the social media site, you can harness the power of “Word Of Mouth” to reach out for the target audience and it has been proved again and again the social media interaction plays a very crucial role in generating quality backlinks which translates into new targeted traffic.
Social media interaction is essentially a method of interaction with the likeminded people to popularize the blogs. Interaction or conversation and promotion are entirely two different aspects and social media should not be used for promotion. Promotion can be done by a number of other methods, like article marketing, promotional emails, new letters, press releases and more.
Conversation is something different. You need to speak with people. Put across your ideas and thoughts to them and ask them to voice their thoughts. Respect their opinion and try to understand their view on the subject. Try to find out what they think to be important. There can be differences in views and you need to discuss the source and reason for such difference. This will give you a fairly good idea of what you need to do to get more traffic. This is where you do not promote your business. Let people do the job for you. Start a discussion and you will see that more and more people will join which eventually translates into traffic for your internet home business.
There are several social media sites that you can use. It is not necessary to use all of them. You can use the ones that you like. Different social media sites which can be used are Facebook, StumbleUpon, Del.icio.us, Twitter, Digg and more. There are some WordPress plugins which can be used to reach out for multiple social interaction sites at a time.
However, it is not suggested to use auto tweets. It is because, auto tweets are generic in nature and they can create a negative feeling. It is always advisable that you use customized tweets every single time you use twitter. This will show that you are always updating and personalizing your account. They will realize that they are dealing with a real person and not a bot. Social interaction is one of the best ways to expand new business and they can play a vital role in internet home business success.


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12 Easy Steps to Create Positive Self-Talk Leading to Your Success





GuestPost by: Sonia Gallagher, Esq.
Sonia is an Executive Life Coach. She help lawyers, professionals, and business owners take control over the direction of their professional lives and create sustainable businesses that reflect what is most important to them.  Visit her site: www.timeforlifenow.com
Have you ever noticed a trend in the thinking patterns of successful people? Have you ever wondered why it seems like success comes so easily to some people and so difficult for others?
It all has to do with your beliefs and self-talk.
People that achieve success in a consistent basis have one thing in common. Whether they are successful athletes, executives, business owners, or artists, they all know that they will succeed. They know this before they even attempt to achieve the goal they set out for themselves. They envision themselves living the way they want to live and feeling the excitement, gratitude, and the sense of accomplishment that comes from reaching what they set out to do.
Positive self-talk is the dialogue that goes on in your mind. It is where you believe in yourself and are confident in your capabilities to the point that you are certain that you will succeed. Here is a list of steps you can take to create positive self-talk to get ahead in life.

1. Choose to Create Positive Self-Talk

When you realize the enormous power that thoughts have over your actions and view of life, you should make a decision to stop living your life with self-imposed limitations. Once you opt for a life filled with opportunities, potential, and fulfillment, you take the most important step to creating the reality you desire.

2. Feed Your Mind

Choose to look for good things to focus your thinking on. Focus your attention on positive, uplifting, and encouraging words to say to yourself. For example: I dont have to finish everything in my task list today or Dealing with this client will make me a more patient person. Choose to look for the silver lining.

3. Practice Persistence

Now that you realize that your self-talk has been going on for decades, you must know that taking back control over your self-talk will not happen overnight. It is a progress that will require your effort.
Continue to find ways to remind yourself to stop and analyze any negative self-talk and to counter it with a positive message to yourself. As you do this, it will become easier. You will reach a point where you do this without realizing it and building your positive self-talk will actually become second nature.

4. Observe Your Self-Talk

Try to relate to your thoughts as scenes in a movie theater screen. When you put yourself in the role of a third party or outsider, it is a lot easier to practice neutrality and to see a situation for what it really is. By becoming an observer of your thoughts and self-talk, you are better able to assess their validity or lack thereof in each thought or thinking pattern. In time, you will also be more apt to seeing trends in triggers that cause the negative self-talk to take place.

5. Re-frame Your Thinking

When you become aware of having a negative thought, give it a positive spin. For example, if your self-talk tells you Im never going to get the promotion. Im late to work yet again!; remove the negative opinion and the judgment from it. Then, you can reframe it into a more positive message like I was late to the office today, what can I do or avoid doing to get here on time? Dont allow your self-talk to beat you up so much. Take control of it and give them a spin. Focus on how you can avoid doing the behavior again.

6. Watch for Absolutes

A lot of people have a tendency to use phrases like I always, I never, or I am with negative self-talk. These phrases can be terribly harmful to you. They create an instant limitation on you and your capacity for change. Avoid them at all costs. A good way of doing this is asking yourself questions regarding the self-talk message.

7. Ask Yourself Questions

Ask yourself questions like: 1. What led me to this thought?, 2. What would be a better solution or way to handle the situation Im facing?, 3. What would allow me to overcome this challenge?, 4. What is another potential outcome in this situation?, 5. What would be the worst thing that could happen?, 6. If the worst thing that could happen did happen, how would that affect me? Is the effect really that bad? Is it fatal? These questions are a great way of combating limiting self-talk.

8. Stop the Thought

While you are in the middle of listening to your negative self-talk, stop your thoughts mid-stream by saying Stop. If your surroundings allow you to say this out loud, do so. The physical act of saying stop out loud will make you better aware of the frequency in which you are stopping negative thoughts, when it happens, where you are when it happens, and what is happening right before it.

9. Rubber-Band Snap

Wear a rubber band on your wrist and snap it each time you hear negative self-talk in your mind. If you cant say Stop out loud, this is a great alternative. The physical pain you feel from this action will be a huge motivator in stopping the negative self-talk.

10. Replace Negative Self-talk with Other Messages

A lot of people find it easier to replace negative self-talk with positive messages than to remove self-talk altogether. Some things you can do to replace your negative self-talk are: A. Use more gentle words to refer to yourself and to situations. (For example instead of thinking I hate being late, replace that thought with I really dont like being late.) and B. Change Limiting Self-talk like I cant win this case! or Im not going to be able to get that client! to questions like Why would I not win this case? and What can I do to prepare for it better?
Self-limiting statements are extremely harmful. They not only increase your stress in response to a situation but paralyze you from finding solutions to the problem. Replace these thoughts with questions instead. This way, youll be in the right frame of mind for finding ways to solve the problem. Asking yourself, How can I win this case? or What can I do to get that client? is much more empowering, isnt it?

11. Learn Discipline

View your practice of removing and changing your negative self-talk like you would a work out plan. You are not going to see results right away but will feel great once you do. Just like there will be days where you are not motivated to go to the gym, there will also be days where you are not motivated to keep track of your negative self-talk or counter it with positive messages. Doing it however helps us develop our discipline and drive.
It gives us a sense of pride for our accomplishment and a sense of control over our life. Its an incredible boost of confidence!

12. Modify the Golden Rule

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Young Muslims strive for success

Over 90% of Muslim youth in Malaysia are happy with their lives and believe that hard work will bring them success and wealth, according to a recent poll.

THE youthquake that is gripping the Middle East has cast a spotlight on the young Muslims in Malaysia and Indonesia, the two majority-Muslim countries in the region.

However, as the findings of a recent survey on the Muslim youth in the region hinted, they may not be likely to start their own Jasmine Revolution here as they are content, satisfied and optimistic about their lives and their respective countries' future.

According to the survey “Values, Dreams, Ideals: Muslim Youth in South-East Asia”, 92% of young Malaysian Muslims aged 15 to 25 surveyed said that they are happy with their life compared to 93.8% young Indonesians.
Major goal: Most young Muslims believe that education is a major factor in personal development, and an important factor in social mobility.

The survey, spearheaded by the Goethe Institute and the Friedrich Naumann Foundation for Freedom, polled 1,060 youth aged 15 to 25 in Malaysia and 1,496 in Indonesia between October and November last year. It was jointly conducted by Merdeka Center with Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia (UKM) and the Lembaga Survei Indonesia on the Indonesian side.

Becoming an entrepreneur tops the list of aspirations for Malaysian youth (24.3%), followed by being a good parent (18.4%) and becoming rich (14.9%).

Being a politician scored almost at the bottom of the list at 0.8%, 1.9% fewer than the number aspiring to be an “artist” (singer or actor).

Some 73% are confident that their economic situation will improve while 94.9% believe that hard work will bring them success and wealth.

Most believe that education is a major factor in personal development, and an important factor in social mobility.

At the same time, many put having a family as a priority for happiness in life (94.2%).

Attaining quality education (61%), getting the opportunity to learn new things (64%) and having a successful working life (97%) are also of prime importance for Indonesian muslim youth (97%), with 53% aiming for professional success and 22.3% for wealth.

While 64% of those polled in the republic felt that the economy had remained static or declined, 57% believe in the importance of hard work to achieve what they want while 73% said that hard workers deserve to be richer.

Similarly, over 90% of the Muslim youth surveyed in Indonesia regard marriage and family as very important.

As studies showed, the revolutions in the Arab world were fired up by their young people's unhappiness with the same issues jobs, education and marriage.

What may be a cause for concern here, however, is the rising religious and social conservatism among young Muslims of the region as hinted by the findings of the survey.

Around 72% support the idea of the Quran replacing the Federal Constitution, while 98.3% say that Muslims are not allowed to change their religion, rejecting one of the freedoms enshrined in the statute.


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Young Muslims strive for success
By HARIATI AZIZAN
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Over 90% of Muslim youth in Malaysia are happy with their lives and believe that hard work will bring them success and wealth, according to a recent poll.

THE youthquake that is gripping the Middle East has cast a spotlight on the young Muslims in Malaysia and Indonesia, the two majority-Muslim countries in the region.

However, as the findings of a recent survey on the Muslim youth in the region hinted, they may not be likely to start their own Jasmine Revolution here as they are content, satisfied and optimistic about their lives and their respective countries' future.

According to the survey “Values, Dreams, Ideals: Muslim Youth in South-East Asia”, 92% of young Malaysian Muslims aged 15 to 25 surveyed said that they are happy with their life compared to 93.8% young Indonesians.
Major goal: Most young Muslims believe that education is a major factor in personal development, and an important factor in social mobility.

The survey, spearheaded by the Goethe Institute and the Friedrich Naumann Foundation for Freedom, polled 1,060 youth aged 15 to 25 in Malaysia and 1,496 in Indonesia between October and November last year. It was jointly conducted by Merdeka Center with Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia (UKM) and the Lembaga Survei Indonesia on the Indonesian side.

Becoming an entrepreneur tops the list of aspirations for Malaysian youth (24.3%), followed by being a good parent (18.4%) and becoming rich (14.9%).

Being a politician scored almost at the bottom of the list at 0.8%, 1.9% fewer than the number aspiring to be an “artist” (singer or actor).

Some 73% are confident that their economic situation will improve while 94.9% believe that hard work will bring them success and wealth.

Most believe that education is a major factor in personal development, and an important factor in social mobility.

At the same time, many put having a family as a priority for happiness in life (94.2%).

Attaining quality education (61%), getting the opportunity to learn new things (64%) and having a successful working life (97%) are also of prime importance for Indonesian muslim youth (97%), with 53% aiming for professional success and 22.3% for wealth.

While 64% of those polled in the republic felt that the economy had remained static or declined, 57% believe in the importance of hard work to achieve what they want while 73% said that hard workers deserve to be richer.

Similarly, over 90% of the Muslim youth surveyed in Indonesia regard marriage and family as very important.

As studies showed, the revolutions in the Arab world were fired up by their young people's unhappiness with the same issues jobs, education and marriage.

What may be a cause for concern here, however, is the rising religious and social conservatism among young Muslims of the region as hinted by the findings of the survey.

Around 72% support the idea of the Quran replacing the Federal Constitution, while 98.3% say that Muslims are not allowed to change their religion, rejecting one of the freedoms enshrined in the statute.

A large majority of the young Muslims polled support moves to impose religious code and law in public life: about 71.5% support the cutting off of hands as punishment for convicted thieves; 92.5% agree to the death sentence for murderers; and 92.4% support whipping as punishment for those who drink alcohol.

This may not come as a surprise to many social observers as ever since former Prime Minister Tun Dr Mahathir Mohamad declared Malaysia as an Islamic state in the late 1980s, the idea has gained much currency.

And despite the peaceful co-existence of various religions in the country, the Islamisation process has grown rapidly in the last few decades.

More religious

Muslim households have grown more religious, as 88.2% of Muslim youth claimed that their families are “very religious” and “rather religious”.

Believing in God and becoming a better Muslim are rated as the most important things in life, to have friends is less important while to become rich ranks last.

In the last decade, Malaysia has gained a reputation worldwide for its seemingly conservative stance, specifically on entertainment and the arts not only from extreme religious factions but also overzealous theocrats.

This perception is intensified by the rise of other faith-related controversies such as the caning of Muslim women for drinking alcohol and protesting against the staging of rock concerts.

Take the MTV World Stage Live Concert that rocked Malaysia last week for instance.

Though it came to pass without much aftershock, there is fear that the rumble from certain Islamist factions against the music event may be a sign of the nation to come.

And while the survey shows no sign that young Muslims in the country will express their religious sentiments as vehemently, it cannot be denied that their stance on the issue may not be so different.

Similarly, Indonesian Muslim youth put faith in God and being religiously devout as the most important things in life while following traditions and customs are ranked lower with enjoying life to the fullest, last.

Interestingly, however, Indonesian youth are more adamant about separating their personal beliefs and the state.

On the question of whether the Islamic holy book should replace their country's constitution, only 20% of Indonesian Muslim youth answered “Yes”.

As for the implementation of syariah law, only 49% said yes to cutting off the hands as punishment for thieves, while a lower number (compared to Malaysia), 66.9% agreed on death sentence for murderers and 68.5% thought that Muslims caught for drinking should be whipped.

A few political and social scientists in the country, however, cautioned that the conservative outlook painted may not be completely accurate and one would need to look beneath the surface to get the whole picture.

Crucially, stressed Professor of Social Anthropology at Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia (UKM), Prof Datuk Dr Shamsul Amri Baharuddin, in terms of religious intensity and orientation, the poll shows that respondents cannot be categorised as extremists or fundamentalists.

Some 59.3% believe that terrorism gives Islam a bad name and there are no indications that they believe violence is an option in pushing for change.

“The survey provides sufficient findings for observers to support the impression that Malaysia is indeed not a failed state as some people would have us believe, nor is Malaysia a little Afghanistan with Taliban-like extremists running around eking out a living from growing poppies,” he wrote in his analysis of the survey.

Most importantly, the majority of both Malaysian and Indonesian youth surveyed said that they were not interested in politics.

Only 23% of Indonesian youth admitted to some interest in politics, with 27% stating that they participate in regional elections. Equally around 23% young Malaysian muslims said they were interested in politics.

However, only 14.2% of Malaysian Muslim youth participate in party politics and a mere 0.8% would want to become politicians. Worse, 66.3% have not registered as voters.

As Merdeka Center director Ibrahim Suffian concluded, the findings of the survey also show many contradictory statements.

It is as if the young people, especially the Malaysians, gave only answers that they know will be “acceptable”, opined Ibrahim.

He pointed out that while the youth's views came across as religiously conservative, in practice they are less so; only 18.1% said they read the Quran often while 28.7% said they always perform the compulsory five daily prayers.

While stating that they have little interest in politics, Malaysia's Muslim youth believe in “Peoples' Power”, and regard opposition parties as an integral part of a democracy and value freedom of expression and assembly.

While professing their strong belief in God and vowing to become better Muslims, many would rather watch television, listen to music or surf the Internet in their leisure time than go to a mosque.

No to violence

And though Malaysia's Muslim youth regard Osama bin Laden as a freedom fighter (62.4 % of the respondents), they denounce violence.

As a teacher who only wants to be known as Rashida sees it, young Malaysians are well trained in taking exams. “They know how to give the right answers to the right questions.”

Muslim Youth Movement of Malaysia (Abim) exco member Jufitri Joha begged to differ, stressing that the findings largely reflect the contemporary reality, especially with regards to the young's interest in politics.

“Based on the survey, 75% of Muslim youth are not interested in politics because the current political situation is appalling. As a result, many have yet to register as voters and many do not even care who is at the helm of the country. This is a disappointing development,” he said.

He also disputed the finding that support the idea of the Quran replacing the Federal Constitution.

There are many aspects that are already covered by the Constitution, and it embodies the universal spirit of Islam.

“Perhaps, there needs to be some amendments from time to time to fit in with the Islamic code, on condition that it is also universal. But my fellow Abim members all agree that the constitution also cannot be amended too freely and too many times (as what has happened since independence),” Jufitri argued.

Ibrahim pointed out that it is important to consider that growing up in Malaysia, Muslim youth are constantly reminded of what they need to do and how to be good Muslims by parents, religious leaders, government-controlled media, teachers and others.

Political scientist and journalism lecturer at Monash University Malaysia Dr Wong Chin Huat agreed.

Peer pressure

“The cultural preference and taste of the Malaysian Muslim youth may be largely shaped by highly-controlled broadcast media, local religious teachers and parents much more than organic interaction of their peers or other autonomous social groupings,” he said.

He felt this may explain their universal reported rejection of un-Islamic lifestyles: occasional beer drinking (96.1%), taking soft drugs (98.9%), pre-marital sex (98.4%), watching pornographic movies (97.5%) and homosexuality (99.4%).

He also believes strongly that it would be “intellectually inept and morally wrong to equate religiosity of Muslims with their rejection of inclusion and modernity.”

True, today's Muslim youth lived in and embraced a globalised world. Modern technology has become a significant part of youth culture, taking young people beyond borders and exposing them to different cultures, views and value-systems.

Jufitri feels that this is apparent in the young's belief that they can push for social and political change through means other than political participation.

The only problem is, he said: “In reality, youth groups fail to attract the majority of the younger generation to join and work towards social and political change because many of these groups have the image of being boring and uncool.”

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Kamis, 24 Februari 2011

10 Resep Sukses Bangsa Jepang

10 Resep Sukses Bangsa Jepang
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1. KERJA KERAS
Sudah menjadi rahasia umum bahwa bangsa Jepang adalah pekerja keras. Rata-rata jam kerja pegawai di Jepang adalah 2450 jam/tahun, sangat tinggi dibandingkan dengan Amerika(1957 jam/tahun), Inggris (1911 jam/tahun), Jerman (1870 jam/tahun), dan Perancis (1680jam/tahun). Seorang pegawai di Jepang bisa menghasilkan sebuah mobil dalam 9 hari, sedangkan pegawai di negara lain memerlukan47 hari untuk membuat mobil yang bernilai sama.
2. MALU
Malu adalah budaya leluhur dan turun temurun bangsa Jepang. Harakiri(bunuh diri dengan menusukkan pisau ke perut) menjadi ritual sejak era samurai, yaitu ketika mereka kalah dan pertempuran. Masuk ke dunia modern, wacananya sedikit berubah ke fenomena "mengundurkan diri" bagi para pejabat(mentri, politikus, dsb) yang terlibat masalah korupsi atau merasa gagal menjalankan tugasnya.
3. HIDUP HEMAT
Orang Jepang memiliki semangat hidup hemat dalam keseharian. Sikap antikonsumerisme berlebihan ini nampak dalam berbagai bidang kehidupan.
4. LOYALITAS
Loyalitas membuat sistem karir di sebuah perusahaan berjalan dan tertatadengan rapi. Sedikit berbeda dengan sistem di Amerika dan Eropa, sangat jarang orang Jepang yang berpindah-pindahpekerjaan. Mereka biasanya bertahan di satu atau dua perusahaan sampaipensiun. Ini mungkin implikasi dari Industri di Jepang yang kebanyakan hanya mau menerima fresh graduate, yang kemudianmereka latih dan didik sendiri sesuai dengan bidang garapan (corebusiness) perusahaan.
5. INOVASI
Jepang bukan bangsa penemu, tapi orang Jepang mempunyai kelebihan dalammeracik temuan orang dan kemudian memasarkannya dalam bentuk yang diminati oleh masyarakat. Menarik membaca kisah Akio Morita yang mengembangkan Sony Walkman yang melegenda itu. Cassete Tape tidak ditemukan oleh Sony,patennya dimiliki oleh perusahaan Phillip Electronics. Tapi yang berhasilmengembangkan dan membundling model portable sebagai sebuah produk yang booming selama puluhan tahun adalah AkioMorita, founder dan CEO Sony pada masa itu. Sampai tahun 1995, tercatatlebih dari 300 model walkman lahir dan jumlah total produksi mencapai 150 juta produk. Teknik perakitan kendaraan rodaempat juga bukan diciptakan orang Jepang, patennya dimiliki orang Amerika.Tapi ternyata Jepangdengan inovasinya bisa mengembangkan industri perakitan kendaraan yanglebih cepat dan murah.
6. PANTANG MENYERAH
Sejarah membuktikan bahwa Jepang termasuk bangsa yang tahan banting danpantang menyerah. Puluhan tahun dibawah kekaisaran Tokugawa yang menutup semua akses ke luar negeri,Jepang sangat tertinggal dalam teknologi. Ketika restorasi Meiji (meiji ishin) datang,bangsa Jepang cepat beradaptasi dan menjadi fast-learner. Kemiskinan sumber daya alam juga tidak membuat Jepangmenyerah. Tidak hanya menjadi pengimpor minyak bumi, batubara, biji besidan kayu, bahkan 85% sumber energi Jepang berasal dari negara lain termasuk Indonesia .Kabarnya kalau Indonesia menghentikan pasokan minyak bumi, maka 30% wilayah Jepang akan gelap gulita Rentetan bencanaterjadi di tahun 1945, dimulai dari bom atom di Hiroshima dan Nagasaki ,disusul dengan kalah perangnya Jepang, dan ditambahi dengan adanya gempa bumi besar di Tokyo . Ternyata Jepang tidakhabis. Dalam beberapa tahun berikutnya Jepang sudah berhasil membangunindustri otomotif danbahkan juga kereta cepat (shinkansen) .
7. BUDAYA BACA
Jangan kaget kalau anda datang ke Jepang dan masuk ke densha (keretalistrik), sebagian besar penumpangnya baik anak-anak maupun dewasa sedang membaca buku atau koran.Tidak peduli duduk atau berdiri, banyak yang memanfaatkan waktu di densha untuk membaca. Banyakpenerbit yang mulai membuat man-ga (komik bergambar) untuk materi-materi kurikulum sekolahbaik SD, SMP maupun SMA.Pelajaran Sejarah, Biologi, Bahasa, dsb disajikan dengan menarik yangmembuat minat baca masyarakat semakin tinggi.
8. KERJASAMA KELOMPOK
Budaya di Jepang tidak terlalu mengakomodasi kerja-kerja yang terlalubersifat individualistik.Termasuk klaim hasil pekerjaan, biasanya ditujukan untuk tim atau kelompoktersebut. Fenomena ini tidak hanya di dunia kerja, kondisi kampus dengan lab penelitiannya jugaseperti itu, mengerjakantugas mata kuliah biasanya juga dalam bentuk kelompok. Kerja dalamkelompok mungkin salah satukekuatan terbesar orang Jepang. Ada anekdot bahwa "1 orang professorJepang akan kalah dengan satuorang professor Amerika, hanya 10 orang professor Amerika tidak akan bisamengalahkan 10 orangprofessor Jepang yang berkelompok" . Musyawarah mufakat atau sering disebutdengan "rin-gi" adalah ritual dalam kelompok. Keputusan strategis harus dibicarakan dalam"rin-gi".
9. MANDIRI
Sejak usia dini anak-anak dilatih untuk mandiri. Irsyad, anak saya yangpaling gede sempatmerasakan masuk TK (Yochien) di Jepang. Dia harus membawa 3 tas besarberisi pakaian ganti, bento(bungkusan makan siang), sepatu ganti, buku-buku, handuk dan sebotol besarminuman yangmenggantung di lehernya. Di Yochien setiap anak dilatih untuk membawaperlengkapan sendiri, danbertanggung jawab terhadap barang miliknya sendiri. Lepas SMA dan masukbangku kuliah hampirsebagian besar tidak meminta biaya kepada orang tua.
10. JAGA TRADISI
Perkembangan teknologi dan ekonomi, tidak membuat bangsa Jepang kehilangantradisi dan budayanya.Budaya perempuan yang sudah menikah untuk tidak bekerja masih ada danhidup sampai saat ini.Budaya minta maaf masih menjadi reflek orang Jepang. Kalau suatu hari andanaik sepeda di Jepangdan menabrak pejalan kaki , maka jangan kaget kalau yang kita tabrak malahyang minta maaf duluan.Sampai saat ini orang Jepang relatif menghindari berkata "tidak" untukapabila mendapat tawaran dari orang lain. Jadi kita harus hati-hati dalam pergaulan dengan orangJepang karena "hai" belumtentu "ya" bagi orang Jepang Pertanian merupakan tradisi leluhur dan asetpenting di Jepang.Persaingan keras karena masuknya beras Thailand dan Amerika yang murah,tidak menyurutkan langkahpemerintah Jepang untuk melindungi para petaninya.
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Disiplin Membawa Sukses Dalam Segala Hal

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BPHNTV-Jakarta. Nilai-nilai ibadah manusia pada bulan ramadhan harus ditingkatkan lagi. Implementasi dari nilai-nilai ibadah tersebut berkorelasi dengan pembangunan akhlak manusia. Karena akhlak merupakan syarat utama bagaimana seseorang bisa dinilai. Demikian sepenggal kalimat yang terucap dari Kepala Badan Pembinaan Hukum Nasional (BPHN) Prof. DR. Ahmad M Ramli saat memberikan Kultum di Musholla Nurul Ikhsan BPHN (11/8). Kepala BPHN mengatakan, nilai-nilai yang mempengaruhi akhlak manusia seperti ikhlas, amanah, adil, bersyukur, tekun, disiplin dan sabar merupakan perwujudan sejauhmana manusia mampu mengendalikan diri, terutama dalam kehidupan di dunia. “Ikhlas bisa menuntun manusia menjadi orang yang bisa mengukur kemampuan diri,” katanya. Dirinya menambahkan, ikhlas menjadi point penting ketika amanah diberikan. Nilai ini selanjutnya akan diuji sejauhmana bisa memberikan rasa adil. “Kelak pada waktunya, amanah dan keadilan akan dipertanggungjawabkan dihadapan Tuhan,” kata Kepala BPHN. Disamping itu, ungkapnya, manusia mempunyai kewajiban untuk bersyukur terhadap segala sesuatu yang diberikan Tuhan, karena tanpa kehendakNya mustahil manusia menjadi sempurna diantara ciptaanNya. “Banyak-banyaklah kita bersyukur”, ujar Prof. Ahmad dalam tauziahnya. “Nilai yang tidak kalah pentingnya adalah disiplin dan sabar,” tuturnya. Disiplin menjadi kunci terhadap keberhasilan seseorang. Tanpa disiplin, sukses dan keberhasilan akan menjauh. Dengan menanamkan disiplin sejak dini dapat membawa kita sukses dalam segala hal dan mudah meraihnya, sambung Prof. Ahmad. Sedangkan sabar merupakan faktor yang sangat penting. Ketika kita diuji berbagai cobaan dalam kehidupan, kesabaran menjadi kunci utama di dalam menghadapi ujian yang diberikan kepada manusia. “Sesungguhnya, Allah bersama orang-orang yang sabar,” papar Kepala BPHN mengutip firman Tuhan di dalam Al-qur’an. Sementara itu, Kepala Pusat Penelitian dan Pengembangan Hukum Nasional Noor Muhammad Azis dalam sesi berikutnya menuturkan, manusia sebagai makhluk Tuhan tidak luput dari takdir kematian. “Dimanapun berada, tidak mengenal ruang dan waktu, kematian pasti menghampiri manusia,” kata bapak yang akrab disapa dengan Pak Aziz. Untuk menghadapi kematian, maka manusia harus mempersiapkan bekal kebaikan baik di dunia maupun di akherat. Berlomba-lomba mencari kebaikan tidak hanya di dunia saja tetapi juga akherat harus dipikirkan. “Pun begitu, jangan sampai kita mengabaikan keduanya, kalo tidak akan celaka selamanya. Untuk itu, segala kewajiban yang mengikat segera ditunaikan,” pesannya.***

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Minggu, 02 Januari 2011

7 Langkah Kunci Kesuksesan

Baru saja saya membaca sebuah artikel yang bagus sekali mengenai tujuh prinsip kesuksesan yang saya akan terjemahkan dari sumber aslinya The Formula for Success In 7 Steps. Berikut artikelnya:

Seperti yang ingin saya katakan, keberhasilan bukan milik minoritas yang elit; kesuksesan milik orang yang memutuskan untuk sukses. Sukses bukanlah milik sebuah kelompok berpengaruh, tetapi hasil jangka waktu orang yang berkomitmen untuk mengikuti prinsip-prinsip kesuksesan.

Jika setiap orang berkomitmen untuk mengikuti prinsip-prinsip sukses, mereka akan menghancurkan belenggu yang muncul untuk menahan tawanan mereka. Jika seseorang memutuskan untuk berhasil, mereka akan maju menuju keberhasilan; tidak pernah melihat ke belakang.
Kunci untuk Sukses – Dalam 7 Langkah:

1. Memutuskan untuk Sukses

“Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other.” (“Selalu ingat bahwa tekad Anda untuk sukses adalah lebih penting dari yang lainnya.”)
-Abraham Lincoln

Untuk memutuskan berhasil berarti menolak alternatif lain selain sukses. Ketika Anda memutuskan untuk sukses, Anda tidak keberatan membakar jembatan hidup biasa-biasa saja di belakang Anda, karena Anda tahu Anda tidak akan menyeberang lagi. keputusan bukanlah sebuah keinginan. keputusan adalah mengetahui bahwa Anda akan sampai ke tujuan Anda, karena Anda tidak akan menyerah sampai Anda tiba; kepercayaan penuh pada apa yang akan Anda capai.

2. Bertindak

“Action is the foundational key to all success.” (“Tindakan adalah kunci dasar menuju sukses semua.”)
-Pablo Picasso

Setelah Anda membuat keputusan untuk sukses, Anda akan merasakan dorongan untuk bertindak. Tindakan adalah satu-satunya cara untuk sukses! Jika Anda tidak mengambil tindakan besar, Anda tidak berada di jalan menuju kesuksesan. Ada hubungan langsung antara tingkat tindakan yang Anda lakukan dan kesuksesan Anda. Anda tidak dapat berkembang tanpa sejumlah tindakan yang luar biasa. Jangan duduk-duduk menunggu kesempatan besar Anda, masuk ke tindakan, dan buat waktu istirahat Anda sendiri. Orang sukses adalah orang yang “sibuk;” orang sukses bertindak setiap hari, dan setiap tindakan membawa mereka lebih dekat ke tujuan mereka.

3. Bersikeras

“Flaming enthusiasm, backed up by horse sense and persistence, is the quality that most frequently makes for success.” (“Antusiasme yang membara, didukung oleh kerja keras dan ketekunan, adalah kualitas yang paling sering membuat untuk sukses.”
-Dale Carnegie

Untuk berhasil memerlukan ketekunan, kegigihan, dan sikap tak henti-hentinya. Apakah Anda terus-menerus?
Anda harus menjadi seperti perangko, mereka mengatakan nilai seluruh prangko terdiri pada kemampuannya untuk menempel sesuatu sampai tiba di tempat tujuan. Apa pun tujuan Anda, Anda harus tetap sampai hingga Anda tiba. Sebagian besar inti dari kesuksesan itu adalah bertahan sementara yang lain melepaskan target mereka.

4. Gagal

“In order to succeed you must fail, so that you know what not to do the next time.” (“Untuk bisa sukses Anda harus gagal, sehingga Anda tahu apa yang tidak boleh dilakukan di waktu berikutnya.”)
-Anthony J. D’Angelo

Tidak apa-apa gagal, kegagalan sebenarnya diperlukan. Anda akan menemukan bahwa orang-orang yang memiliki keberhasilan terbesar sering memiliki kegagalan besar pula. Mengapa demikian? Karena orang-orang dengan kesuksesan besar berani mengambil risiko, mereka mengambil peluang, mereka keluar dari zona kenyamanan mereka. Anda tidak benar-benar gagal jika Anda sudah belajar sesuatu yang berharga dari kegagalan itu.

5. Gagal Lagi

“I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed.” (“Saya sudah gagal berulang-ulang dalam hidup saya dan itulah sebabnya saya berhasil.”)
-Michael Jordan

Agar berhasil, Anda harus gagal, dan gagal, dan gagal. Kegagalan adalah jalan menuju sukses. Edison gagal 10.000 kali, namun ia tidak melihatnya sebagai kegagalan, ia melihatnya sebagai jalan menuju sukses. Bila Anda mencoba untuk mencapai tujuan Anda, Anda akan sering mendapatkan hasil kecil. Jangan melihat hasil kecil ini sebagai kegagalan; lihat mereka sebagai langkah yang benar menuju tujuan Anda.

6. Berhenti

“If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. Then quit. There’s no point in being a damn fool about it.” (“Jika pada awalnya Anda tidak berhasil, coba, coba lagi. Kemudian berhenti. Tidak Ada gunanya menjadi tolol tentang hal itu. “)
-W. C. Fields

Kadang-kadang Anda harus berhenti agar berhasil! Mungkin rencana Anda tidak baik, jangan terpaku dengan sesuatu yang jelas tidak bekerja; berhenti, kembali menyesuaikan, dan mulai lagi. Mungkin Anda gagal karena Anda tidak bersemangat tentang ujuan Anda. Lihat ke dalam diri Anda dan pastikan motif Anda benar; pastikan Anda didorong oleh gairah batin. Kesuksesan lahir dari gairah Anda, tidak apa-apa berhenti sampai Anda menemukan gairah Anda.

7. Cari Sesuatu yang Anda sungguh Percaya dan Akhirnya Sukses

“In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.” (“Dalam rangka untuk berhasil, keinginan Anda untuk sukses harus lebih besar dari ketakutan Anda akan kegagalan.”)
-Bill Cosby

Ketika Anda menemukan sesuatu yang Anda benar-benar percaya, Anda akhirnya akan dapat berhasil. semangat Anda akan membawa Anda melalui lelapnya malam, kesukaan Anda akan apa yang Anda lakukan akan menyebabkan Anda untuk menjadi yang terbaik. Kali ini Anda pasti akan berhasil, dan keberhasilan Anda akan menjadi hasil dari keputusan Anda untuk sukses, tindakan konsisten Anda, tak henti-hentinya ketekunan Anda, dan kegagalan Anda lagi dan lagi. Apa yang Anda pikir buang-buang waktu, adalah masa persiapan Anda, apa yang Anda pikir akan merugikan Anda, akan menjadi dasar keberhasilan Anda.

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